Vote if you want to be heard. No matter which side you are on or no side at all, if you can vote please do so, if you can’t vote then sit back and watch. If you can vote and you didn’t, don’t complain the outcome. As Americans, we all want what is the best for our country, I don’t think any citizen living here wants any bad decisions made whether you are one side or the other. I hope you have done some research by now to who you want to be our leaders. Be honest and true to yourself and choose who you want and not who they are telling you to vote for. After voting, you know you tried your hardest and went out there and voted, and now it is out of your hands, you are waiting for the results. Please everyone do not get violent or threaten anyone for any reason. GOD gave us a brain to use and a mouth to talk, use it. Yelling just means that you can’t handle or face reality and it gets you nowhere but maybe arrested or the hospital. Other countries look up to us and they want to be just like us. Don’t let them see us fighting and destroying our schools or neighborhood on their t.v. Or online. We are not that kind of citizens. Show our children how we react to things we agree or disagree on by using our minds and speaking out our feelings towards the outcome of the election. You might not like our president now or other citizens who didn’t like our former presidents in the past. But he is still our president you except it or not that is your choice and your right, but become active to change things not physical force. GOD BLESS ANERICA.
Please repeat after me ???
Luxury weddings. I went to this nice resort for the weekend and I saw a wedding in progress over the resorts luxurious grounds. It was one of the most beautiful and meaningful weddings I have ever seen, even though I was just watching from the balcony. The guests were flown in from all around the world to stay for a week of fun, food, drinking, celebrating and relaxing. All 400 guests looked so relaxed and very well dressed. There was no expense spared. From the unbelievable flowers to the decorations and drones and fireworks at the end of the ceremony. It was breathtaking to watch. The bride was very humble talking to everyone in the hotel, even the hotel guests while wearing tennis shoes under this expensive wedding dress. I was there all weekend walking around enjoying the decorations just as a hotel guest when I started hearing other people saying negative things like, why this much money was spent on this wedding? Or why can’t they donate if they have this much money? Why do people say that and how do they know if they don’t donate? Just because you have money doesn’t mean you owe everyone part of your income. Maybe they donate and help organizations and people all around the world. Why cant they throw a lavish wedding for their daughter or son? You can do it all if you have enough, you don’t have to choose one or the other. Please don’t judge.
Change time ⏰⏱?
Don’t forget time goes back an hour tonight. I don’t know how I feel about time changing twice a year. It messes with my schedule and takes a while to get use to the idea of change. It seems like by the time I get use to it, I have to change it back to one hour forward. It’s not the end of the world or anything, I just like it to go back one hour and stay that way. When it gets dark sooner, people tend to think it’s a lot later than it actually is. Your dinner time changes, your wake up time changes the next morning. Your regular routine is off. There are other states that don’t change the time at all and they are very close by. I guess it’s not a big deal, I just have to adjust. It might effect me more than others. I wonder if others feel the same.
Vacation with other people? ????????♀️✈️
Is it a good idea to go on vacation with other couples or families? Sure it sounds good and exciting at first, but if you don’t compromise it can go downhill real fast and might even get unpleasant. You plan and pack and get excited to have a great time whether you are going with your family or just for two. But someone gets a great idea of inviting others. Maybe at first it will go great, your kids will have someone to play or hang out with when you get there. They won’t bug you so much. If it’s just you two, you will have another couple to have dinner with which sounds great. Usually your husband doesn’t have a problem with the places you pick to go on tours or restaurants or other activities when it’s just you two or if it’s just your family. But for some reason he changes in front of others or vice versa, you change because you both want to show them you have ideas too and they are better. This usually doesn’t happen if you are alone. Now the other couple starts either judging or actually doing the same thing to each other. Then your ideas to where to go and the other couples idea of where to go might be different, and now your stuck doing Something you don’t like doing just so you don’t look like a hard person to please. So, if you want to be romantic or be with your family and don’t want to share your time or your ideas with others, think before you invite other people to go along with you on your vacation.
Eat your fruits and veggies ??????????
We were all brought up to think fruits and vegetables are good for us. Since we were babies our mothers use to purée it for us to eat all of our fruits and vegetables. We were told all of our lives how we couldn’t have any dessert unless we ate our fruits and vegetables. Some kids had no problem eating it and some dreaded the idea of eating asparagus or broccoli just to get ice cream later. Now as an adult we don’t need anyone to push us to eat our fruits and vegetables, we know if we want to be healthy, we should eat healthy. Some of us still need a little more encouragement to get on the healthy road. But when I watch the news, sometimes it confuses me. They report things like, don’t eat apples it has too much of this or that, eat more oranges. Following week it’s the opposite or they tell you not to eat another kind of fruit or vegetable. Are they doing studies on what they are reporting or is it all just a gimmick to sell us more of what they want you to buy. This is our lives and health they are messing with. They shouldn’t report on what is trending that week because some other channel reported it. We should buy organic fruits and vegetables as much as we can from our local farmers market or markets that sell organic fruits. As long as they don’t lie to us about where they got their fruits and vegetables from.
How much is too much ???♀️
Hello world. Is make-up for every day use suppose to enhance your look or make you look completely unrecognizable? I look around and see some people’s faces and can’t believe how much make-up they have on their faces during the day just going to work. Unless your job requires you to wear that much make-up then I could be wrong. I love make-up don’t get me wrong but if you have on layers and layers of caked on make-up and you just work at the bank or the market, is that too much or am I wrong? Again if you have to cover up a scar or acne that’s not what I am talking about so please don’t think I’m judging, not at all. I just don’t want society telling young girls they are not pretty enough. Some say they have on the natural look, but it looks more like natural disaster. Why do that to yourself? Especially young girls you don’t need that much make-up. Enjoy your youth. You will need more later anyway. All I’m saying is when you wear make-up it makes you look good and you feel good, I get that. But once you wash it off you go from supermodel to just another person that walked by. Don’t fool men or yourself. Be confident and happy with what GOD and your Mama gave you.
Don’t touch that dial! Watch happy television. ???
Don’t watch the news or anything depressing before bedtime. It effects you more than you think. You already had a full day and your brain doesn’t need anymore things to solve. Watch the news early, don’t let things that are sad be the last thing you watch before bed. Record it so you don’t miss your favorite shows that are powerful or too violent to watch the next day early enough or save it for the weekend. Same goes for the happy feel good shows, record and watch right before bed. If you don’t think that kind of stuff doesn’t effect you, you are wrong, it may not bother you that night but it will effect your thoughts the next day. Your brain needs rest and comfort, you need to be calm and relaxed before you go to sleep for the night so your nerves are settled and you wake up happy the next morning.
Beauty and the Beast ✈️????
It should be one of the greatest pleasures in life to get on a plane and go anywhere you like, unless you are me, you get to fly nowhere from fear of flying. Although I enjoy road trips to places like I mentioned in my previous post, but there are places where it’s too far or impossible to drive. Just to go to Europe I have to drive yo New York then take a cruise to England, then take a train everywhere. Which probably takes three weeks. Not good. I have taken pills, had the doctor talk to ne, cousins volunteering to fly with me, and the guilt trip of never seeing the world is excusing. How high the plane goes is nerve racking. Getting stuck in the narrow seats gives me anxiety. I also recently experienced this new thing I never had before, claustrophobia. I couldn’t understand before what people meant when they said that, but never judge. I finally realized that I should trust GOD. If I want to see or do anything in life, he will guide me. It’s not easy but if I want to see the world, I have to let go and let GOD.
Happiest place on Earth ????⛰
You don’t have to be a kid to fall in love with Disneyland. It’s not just for kids, adults can escape their real world for a day and enjoy what it offers. Men, you can also join in on the fun. Other than getting married and riding Cinderella’s carriage, it offers private club for men, private tours, and you can stay at Walt Disney’s house if you can afford it, which is on the property and very close to Main Street. Whether you go with kids or with adults, no one will care because there is no judging at Disneyland. The beautiful princesses welcome you to a fantasy world in a beautiful garden with manicured trees and bushes trimmed to a shape of a character or lollipop. How can you get upset at that? The colorful flowers will lead you to enjoy all different kinds of food, even the ones your dentist told you not to eat too much of. After eating, you can enjoy your ice cream by watching the many different kinds of parades they have with all the characters from all the Disney movies. Then you watch the prince romance the princess with a slow waltz while the villain is watching them deviously to destroy their happy romance and the love they share. Some of those villains are bad a….Finally at night you can watch with your youthful eyes the fireworks or the spectacular laser show. Then you take the tram to your choice of hotels they have on the premises to get a goodnight sleep, because after that I wouldn’t want to drive home.
To buy or not to buy, that is the question ?♀️?♂️??
What is the appropriate age to buy kids or teenagers their own cell phone? When cell phones came out for everyone to buy, usually the parents had it first. Then we started seeing it in the hands of their 18 year olds, then to 17 and 16 year olds. It started looking normal for everyone to have cell phones, which was good for so many reasons. A year went by then the 12 year olds had their own phones and now the 10 year olds started denmanding it from their parents. Then I started seeing it in the hands of 8 years old then 5. I even seen some younger kids that have it, but I’m hoping they are just playing an innocent game on it. Cell phones have so many good things that are useful to us which made us very happy and made life easier. It also helps the younger kids for emergency reasons, or if you need to find them and contact them directly. But, it’s also dangerous for our kids to have, someone might put them in in danger to steal the phone from them. They look up information about anything that they are too young to know yet, or maybe you as a parent wanted to be the first to tell them. Even adults use it for devious reasons by texting each other when in the same room so you don’t hear. Kids use it at school during tests or text each other the answers. Videotape a classmate or a teacher without their knowledge. Technology is made to make things easier for us. Please use it for information or any God thing that it offers you, also think about how old is the right age to buy one for your kid. ??